My sister was telling me about a friend of hers who has a beautiful daughter who may be getting into trouble. I've met this girl. She doesn't seem like a "druggie" at all. She comes from a good family, dresses well, accels in sports, clean, pretty, does well in school. But there have been some changes in her behavior that don't seem like her normal self. One of the relatives tried to tell the girl's mom that she should drug test her. The response, "Oh, ____ would never do that." Then there's always excuses, "She's just tired.", and other excuses.
Wake up parents! You've got to step out of your comfort zone. No-one EVER thought I was doing drugs. I matched the description of this girl to a tee. I was such a "good kid", even while I was in the process of getting myself addicted to drugs. This girl's life might be saved, if her mom would just simply buy a drug test, and use it! If it's clean, she can just hug her, and say how relieved she is. Uncomfortable for a parent to do this? Yes. But it can save a life.
Please visit http://www.breakingfreedaily.com/ for information and support for parents on how to "prevent" kids from ever trying drugs. And urge other parents to get bold on the subject, and take action.
My sister, who posts all my blogs and updates for my website, has been very busy with her new book tour. http://www.thegrocerygame.com/con_Shop_Smart_Save_More_Book.cfm. Now she has some help transcribing my content for the website and blog. So we'll be getting more stuff up very soon.
I got an A plus and a B on my last report card. It's hard. But I know it's important. I'm learning alot as I am studying for my drug and alcohol counseling certificate.
If you have any questions, I'm not an expert yet, but I've been there. You can write to me at the address on http://www.breakingfreedaily.com/
Or, here it is:
James Landrum K-90251
CMC West
U2-20-13L
PO Box 8103
San Luis Obispo, CA 93403
Or you can post a comment on my blog. My sister will print it and mail it to me, and I will send a response, which she will post for me.
I don't have access to the internet. So this process takes some time.
I'm not a parent. But I'm here to support you in any way I can. Parents, please don't be blind. Your child is not immune to getting involved in drugs. Be strong for your kids.
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Prisoners like to have pets too...
Prisoners like to have pets too...
I'm writing this about pets because I have read blogs that my sister writes sometimes about their new puppy, and the things he does while growing from puppy to dog. So reading her blog, made me want to say a blittle about the pets that some of the guys have in here. Yes, some prisoners have pets.
Now the most popular pets in here are lizards. The owners of the lizards will walk around the dorm and the yard with the lizard just kicking back on their shoulder. It's kind of funny looking. But one thing that's good about the lizards is it keeps the flys down in our dorms. The lizard owners go around catching flies and putting them in jars. Then they'll take the wings off of the flies and feed them to their lizards. My neighbor's lizard's name is "spike".
My other neighbor has a big green praying mantis that is really cool. It eats crickets and big bumble bees. When you pick it up, it just turns its alien looking head right at you. It's kind of a trip.
And last but not least, and new to our pet family her in the dorm I'm in, is a pretty big tarantula. They caught it yesterday. And it's about the size of a silver dollar not counting the legs. It's really mellow and will just crawl right on your hand.
I'm writing this about pets because I have read blogs that my sister writes sometimes about their new puppy, and the things he does while growing from puppy to dog. So reading her blog, made me want to say a blittle about the pets that some of the guys have in here. Yes, some prisoners have pets.
Now the most popular pets in here are lizards. The owners of the lizards will walk around the dorm and the yard with the lizard just kicking back on their shoulder. It's kind of funny looking. But one thing that's good about the lizards is it keeps the flys down in our dorms. The lizard owners go around catching flies and putting them in jars. Then they'll take the wings off of the flies and feed them to their lizards. My neighbor's lizard's name is "spike".
My other neighbor has a big green praying mantis that is really cool. It eats crickets and big bumble bees. When you pick it up, it just turns its alien looking head right at you. It's kind of a trip.
And last but not least, and new to our pet family her in the dorm I'm in, is a pretty big tarantula. They caught it yesterday. And it's about the size of a silver dollar not counting the legs. It's really mellow and will just crawl right on your hand.
Saturday, October 18, 2008
One Mom's smart drug prevention
Well I just got some things that one of my sister's sent me from my email today. One of the things I would like to talk about some things that were said by this mom. I would like to thank her for her email and congratulate her on her great work with her kids. And would like to share what she is doing, as I think it is wise advice for other parents.
This mom has 2 children ages 16 and 22 who because of some life circumstances with their father, would be at a considerable risk for drug use. So she has kept them very informed about drugs and the consequences that come from drugs. And her kids are clean as a result. She knows that teaching your kids to "just say no" to drugs is not enough. This lady went the extra mile to inform her kids about the consequences of drugs and I feel that is very important these days.
Don't just tell your kids to say "no" to drugs. Explain to them why to say "no". Show them proof of the destruction that drugs cause. These are YOUR kids that you are trying to protect from a life of hell and misery. Over time, our goal is for www.BreakingFreeDaily.com to have graphic proof of the destruction of drugs that you can show your kids.
Some things that this loving mother has done for years is to "show" her kids what drugs do on a regular basis, by reading horror stories of real life drug additction stories in newspapers, magazines, etc. Showing pictures of people who are on drugs and how terrible they look. She did all she knew how to scare her kids away from drugs. And from what I can tell, she has done a wonderful job.
Here is a thought I worry about alot. Parents think, "Not my Tommy. He would never use drugs." For one thing, I was squeaky clean, the last kid that you would ever think would try drugs. For most parents, the signs are there right in their face, but they still have denial about their kids using drugs. They just can't see it. By the time they figure it out, it's too late. Either their kids are addicted, in jail, or dead. But like this mom has done, prevention is even better than detecting your kids are using drugs. Even if you think your kids are immune, there is no harm in educating them as this mom has done. And it could save their life.
You don't have absolute control of your kids' actions, but as a parent, there is alot you can do to actively steer your kids away from drug use. If you can keep it from ever happening, then that's awesome. But please don't ever think that addiction or trying drugs is something that would never touch your child. This is the biggest mistake I see parents making. We want to think the best of our kids. And that's good. But you can never be too proactive in your mission to keep your kids drug free. Talk alot. Make it a daily mission to find material to show them. Even if they roll their eyes and get tired of you blabbing... They're listening and they know you mean well and love them. And it just might save their life.
This mom has 2 children ages 16 and 22 who because of some life circumstances with their father, would be at a considerable risk for drug use. So she has kept them very informed about drugs and the consequences that come from drugs. And her kids are clean as a result. She knows that teaching your kids to "just say no" to drugs is not enough. This lady went the extra mile to inform her kids about the consequences of drugs and I feel that is very important these days.
Don't just tell your kids to say "no" to drugs. Explain to them why to say "no". Show them proof of the destruction that drugs cause. These are YOUR kids that you are trying to protect from a life of hell and misery. Over time, our goal is for www.BreakingFreeDaily.com to have graphic proof of the destruction of drugs that you can show your kids.
Some things that this loving mother has done for years is to "show" her kids what drugs do on a regular basis, by reading horror stories of real life drug additction stories in newspapers, magazines, etc. Showing pictures of people who are on drugs and how terrible they look. She did all she knew how to scare her kids away from drugs. And from what I can tell, she has done a wonderful job.
Here is a thought I worry about alot. Parents think, "Not my Tommy. He would never use drugs." For one thing, I was squeaky clean, the last kid that you would ever think would try drugs. For most parents, the signs are there right in their face, but they still have denial about their kids using drugs. They just can't see it. By the time they figure it out, it's too late. Either their kids are addicted, in jail, or dead. But like this mom has done, prevention is even better than detecting your kids are using drugs. Even if you think your kids are immune, there is no harm in educating them as this mom has done. And it could save their life.
You don't have absolute control of your kids' actions, but as a parent, there is alot you can do to actively steer your kids away from drug use. If you can keep it from ever happening, then that's awesome. But please don't ever think that addiction or trying drugs is something that would never touch your child. This is the biggest mistake I see parents making. We want to think the best of our kids. And that's good. But you can never be too proactive in your mission to keep your kids drug free. Talk alot. Make it a daily mission to find material to show them. Even if they roll their eyes and get tired of you blabbing... They're listening and they know you mean well and love them. And it just might save their life.
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Putting differences aside
– When I think about what happened the other night, with everyone coming together brings the thought of what I want www.BreakingFreeDaily.com to be like. Something like one big family or team coming together to help each other through a time of need. Without barriers of race, age, differences in lifestyle, differences in opinions, or politics…
Last night, one guy had a problem and 89 other inmates put their differences aside and stood together. When that happened, it was an awesome feeling. A feeling of strength, a feeling of joy, and a feeling that anything is possible.
I’m looking forward to getting our message board up on the website. It’s coming. With the message board, content, resources and even my blog, I hope that www.BreakingFreeDaily.com can be there for someone in a time of need, or boost up someone’s confidence, or give someone motivation to take that extra step, and come together as a family or team to give the support and feel the strength of our unity.
Let’s dedicate ourselves to living a better and happier life.
Sometimes it’s weird how things work… You may help someone in need sometime, and the next thing you know, YOU feel on top of the world! You feel better about yourself. Wonder who you can touch today?
Last night, one guy had a problem and 89 other inmates put their differences aside and stood together. When that happened, it was an awesome feeling. A feeling of strength, a feeling of joy, and a feeling that anything is possible.
I’m looking forward to getting our message board up on the website. It’s coming. With the message board, content, resources and even my blog, I hope that www.BreakingFreeDaily.com can be there for someone in a time of need, or boost up someone’s confidence, or give someone motivation to take that extra step, and come together as a family or team to give the support and feel the strength of our unity.
Let’s dedicate ourselves to living a better and happier life.
Sometimes it’s weird how things work… You may help someone in need sometime, and the next thing you know, YOU feel on top of the world! You feel better about yourself. Wonder who you can touch today?
Sunday, October 12, 2008
Taking things for granted...
Now this is kind of weird...
Earlier I was writing about taking things for granted and in fact it's a very easy thing to do. Anyway, someone just came up to tme to show me something they read in a book. Now the book, I guess is called, "How To Deal With Fear and Worry" by K Sri Dhammananda. In this book, it says "I complained that I had no shoes until I met a man with no feet." Maybe I should think twice before I start to complain about having no privacy. ?????
Earlier I was writing about taking things for granted and in fact it's a very easy thing to do. Anyway, someone just came up to tme to show me something they read in a book. Now the book, I guess is called, "How To Deal With Fear and Worry" by K Sri Dhammananda. In this book, it says "I complained that I had no shoes until I met a man with no feet." Maybe I should think twice before I start to complain about having no privacy. ?????
Wednesday, October 8, 2008
Where is all the hate?
Tonight I witnessed something that I felt was pretty amazing and is a step in the right direction for prisoners who want to change their ways. As you may know, I’m in prison, in a Substance Abuse Program where the inmates involved are trying to change their lives. And one of the things we are trying not to partake in is all the racial politics and hatred that is part of prison living.
The circumstance that brought about this breakthrough was very sad, but the unity was awesome. An Asian inmate here just found out that in three days, his grandfather will be taken off of life support. That’s the sad part. But tonight, at 9:15 PM, all 89 other inmates, including myself, joined in prayer for our fellow inmate’s grandfather. So now picture this… 90 guys who are different races, not all ordinarily religious, joined hands in a circle and all heads bowed. The brotherhood that I felt was great. And so extremely foreign to prison life, or anything that I have ever seen or ever thought I would experience in prison. Afterwards seeing some of these guys with tears in their eyes. It was pretty cool unity.
Where was all the hate???
The circumstance that brought about this breakthrough was very sad, but the unity was awesome. An Asian inmate here just found out that in three days, his grandfather will be taken off of life support. That’s the sad part. But tonight, at 9:15 PM, all 89 other inmates, including myself, joined in prayer for our fellow inmate’s grandfather. So now picture this… 90 guys who are different races, not all ordinarily religious, joined hands in a circle and all heads bowed. The brotherhood that I felt was great. And so extremely foreign to prison life, or anything that I have ever seen or ever thought I would experience in prison. Afterwards seeing some of these guys with tears in their eyes. It was pretty cool unity.
Where was all the hate???
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Protecting the space in my mind
One thing that I’m very glad that I’m good at is that I don’t let just anybody occupy space in my mind. For the most part the only thing that occupies space in my head is my family, goals, dreams and my own thoughts.
I can sit here all day and observe a number of people throughout the day who let someone else in here occupy their brain in a negative way. Someone does something that they don’t like, or they felt disrespected them, and it affects their character completely. I can understand something bothering someone for a few minutes or maybe even an hour. But some of the guys in here let the smallest things affect them for days. They walk around in a bad mood for days, complaining about nothing really. I think they would feel a lot better, if they just got over the issue, and went on with life. Turn the damn page already… let it roll off your back, and move on!
Here is a question for members of BreakingFreeDaily.com. This may not apply to everyone, but for the ones it does: What one or two things would help you feel peace in your life? And/or… What do you do that may help someone else feel peace?
I can sit here all day and observe a number of people throughout the day who let someone else in here occupy their brain in a negative way. Someone does something that they don’t like, or they felt disrespected them, and it affects their character completely. I can understand something bothering someone for a few minutes or maybe even an hour. But some of the guys in here let the smallest things affect them for days. They walk around in a bad mood for days, complaining about nothing really. I think they would feel a lot better, if they just got over the issue, and went on with life. Turn the damn page already… let it roll off your back, and move on!
Here is a question for members of BreakingFreeDaily.com. This may not apply to everyone, but for the ones it does: What one or two things would help you feel peace in your life? And/or… What do you do that may help someone else feel peace?
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